DEAR
Troy Tashaz Blog Readers,
Where did i go wrong? what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend. rEAD THE STORY BELOW;
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few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a
Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We
got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i
discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly
versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events,
religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am
also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.
With each
passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i
can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter
how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She
said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the
outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them
come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on
something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants
s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and
forgot the issue.
Just last week, i was sent on a strategic
training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after
classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts
of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and
we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm,
when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and
then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my
hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I
agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would
spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt
argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time
to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a
recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest,
silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed
mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented
her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She
looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words
and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a
while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i
forced myself to sleep too.
Early the next morning, she woke up
with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she
made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins,
she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked,
dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she
has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to
Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as
she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.
So guys, thats my
story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she
is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.
